Photos from our engagement

All photos from our engagement ceremony in the village last weekend have now been uploaded for public viewing.

With the extra cameras on board I believe that the essence of last weekend’s gathering was captured really well (over 400 snaps). For those wanting to experience true Papua New Guinea hospitality and friendliness a visit to the Simbu Province in the Highlands is an absolute must.

Here’s a sample from each of the cameras…

At the “Hut” last Sunday when the two of us faced each other just before exchanging vows which was witnessed by close family and members of the Bolku clan (photo courtesy Sebastian):
The Bolku Clan gathers for the exchange of vows

The connection I have with the old people in the village is unique. Here I’m with Bubu Mika – a Bolku elder that had already been initiated by the time white first arrived in the mid 1930′s (photo courtesy Chau):
Bubu Mika - a Bolku elder

Eli’s Mum and Dad travelled up from Lae for the occasion. Here’s an excellent shot of Eli’s father – Jo Duna (photo courtesy Anthony):
An excellent shot of Eli's father - Jo Duna

The 400 odd photos have been grouped into three photos albums…

Photos courtesy Sebastian from the WTYSL Foundation (click on thumbnail):
Album Kaubasis Engagement (Courtesy Sebastian)

Photos courtesy Chau from the WTYSL Foundation (click on thumbnail):
Album Kaubasis Engagement (Courtesy Chau)

Photos courtesy Anthony and myself (click on thumbnail):
Album Kaubasis Engagement (Courtesy Anthony and myself)

The task of adding captions to each of the photos should be finished within the next day or so.

The Author

21 responses to “Photos from our engagement”

  1. Leonard Greenland

    Congratulations on your engagement! When does the wedding take place?

    You mentioned in a previous email you were going back to Sydney for a while. I that because your contract has run out and you have to renew it?

  2. Gideon Gipmai

    Hi there Rob,
    Congratulations on your engagement. I’m sure your wedding ceremony will be a big one.

    I truly appreciate your comments about the friendliness and hospitality of the people of Simbu. I am always proud of our culture at home where people will always openly shown their emotions. Every time I go home for school holidays or break, there will always be a mother who will cry for me!! I’ll never forget that which makes me feel so special in the hearts of my mothers.

    Well, it must have been a really awesome gathering for the community and your friends. I hope your friends enjoy the simple lifestyle of the villagers and the cultures.

    You take care of yourself and I’ll see you somedays when our paths cross.

    Kind regards
    GG

  3. Dorothy Fisher

    Dear Robert,

    I have truly enjoyed the information published on this website however, what I truly enjoyed is the feeling of knowing and understanding how one falls in love with a woman, her culture and her people, you truly are a real man (trupela man ia). I am overwhelmed and intrigued by all these and I thank God that at least there are man like you around on earth. Tell Eli she is a real woman too (trupela meri ia).

    All the best and God’s many blessings to you both.
    Dorothy

  4. Henry

    Rob,

    Congratulations on your engagement with Eli.

    I’m sure the folks at the village are really proud to have you as one of their own.
    Its great to have you as a friend and a mentor.

    I only wish you and Eli all the world’s best.

    Henry

  5. Jan Messersmith

    Our congratulations to you, Robert. I’ve been to many such occasions in PNG villages. I know how much joy they can bring. This post evoked many happy (and a few sad) memories. Great presentation!

    MadDog

  6. Dietrich Splettstoesser

    Hi Rob & Eli,

    congrats and good luck. Currently playing with the grandchildren in London and fondly remembering warm nights in your garden on the Unitech campus.

    Cheers,
    Dietrich

  7. Ian Metherell

    Dear Rob + Eli,

    Congratulations to you both. I can only imagine the joy and happiness you would be feeling. My heart and prayers go out to you both. Let me know when your coming over to visit. Take it easy.

    Regards,

    Ian

  8. Sjoerd

    Apa, nogut yu maritim wanpela meri Goroka, stap long PNG olgeta na yu no save long tok mauswara. Yu no save long tok pilai ;)

    Rob, I wish you and your wife to be all the best. Wish I would have been there. Mangi kange would have had some pig, beetlenut, stories and maybe a meri of his own. May you have lot’s of kids, land and pigs. Apa konda kets mulai.

  9. Norah

    Hi Robert,

    Just read about your engagment. Congratulations to you and Eli.
    Bikpela Hugs to her. Mi tingim yu tupela stap.

    Regards
    Norah and pikininis

  10. Langtry

    Rob & Eli,
    congratulations on your engagement.
    I wish you both the best the future can offer.
    See you in Lae some time.
    Regards!
    Langtry
    Lae
    Morobe Province

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